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5 Easy Steps to Accept Criticism by Eric C., MA., By PhD Candidate (USA) Founder of: MakeItUltra™

Posted in 2017, spirituality with tags , , , , , on February 3, 2017 by theboldcorsicanflame

Written by Eric C., MA., PhD Candidate (USA) Founder of: MakeItUltra™ “Any fool can criticize, condemn and complain, but it takes character and self-control to be understanding and forgiving.” ~Dale Carnegie

My fiancé can’t stand the way I drive. I, of course, do not agree with her criticism and defend my driving skills as if I am a professional formula one driver. I am not special in regards to accepting criticism. No one likes to be criticized, but it is part of my existence unless I become a hermit who lives in a cave. In the current age where criticism is only a “Yelp” away, being able to accept criticism, whether it is fair or not is both necessary and vital for growth.

Here are five easy steps to accept criticism:

1. Don’t let a knee jerk reaction make a jerk out of you
Don’t be reactive. When criticized we may want to respond with anger and defensiveness towards the person who we feel is unjustly on the attack.  It is important to learn to control these initial negative reactions so things don’t spiral out of control. Take a step back and don’t personalize the criticism. Remember, the criticism is not aimed at you but at your actions.

2. Listen
Criticism is just a form of communication with a little more spice. Perhaps the person criticizing you is not using the right words. However, they are still trying to tell you something. Perhaps, if you listen carefully you will gain insight that can make you better.

3.Accept
Accept that you are not perfect. We ALL make mistakes. Be open to the criticism and see it as an opportunity to grow. Don’t waste energy holding on to ill feelings about being criticized. Imagine yourself holding the criticism in the palm of your open hand. Accept it. Release it.

4. Learn
Take the criticism  that you see as negative and transform it into something constructive. The psychotherapeutic term for this is sublimation. High achievers are experts at sublimating negative feelings into positive actions. Learn to see every criticism as an opportunity to grow. Don’t forget to update the people who criticized you on your progress. Look for their eyes to light up when you tell them about the positive changes you made. Only then does it become evident that they really were just trying to help.

5. Lastly, say thank you
Once we put our ego aside, we need to remember we are actually learning the most from the people who criticize us in a constructive way.  These individuals are going out of their way and opening themselves up to a potentially verbal attack just for the sake of honest reflection. So thank them for their courage and don’t hold a grudge.Once you accept this, you may actually go out of your way to elicit criticism from others to see in what areas you can improve. Remember the next time you are criticized, you are in good company and growth can’t happen in the comfort zone! Good luck!

Source: 5 Easy Steps to Accept Criticism

Evil Bitch! Madonna Women’s March Speech “‘Blow Up The White House, Kill Everyone’!!!

Posted in 2017, spirituality with tags , , , , , , on January 22, 2017 by theboldcorsicanflame

Secret Service WILL investigate Madonna after singer says she wants to BLOW UP the White House during expletive-filled rant at women’s march in Washington

Yet another blowhard, violent, anti-democratic pro-black magic, Satanic Hollywood/NYC bitch bites the dust.  The crowd cheered this criminal stuff which is funny considering how they are also screaming, they are easily hurt.

The Secret Service has reportedly said they will open an investigation into pop singer Madonna after her intense speech at the Women’s March on Washington on Saturday afternoon. Donning a black p***yhat, the music icon caused controversy by dropping the F-bomb four times, sparking a slew of apologies from broadcasters airing the protest live. She went on to speak of her rage at the election result, telling the crowd she had thought a lot about ‘blowing up the White House’ but knew that it ‘wouldn’t change anything’.

SOURCE:Madonna Says ‘Blow Up The White House, Kill Everyone’

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Jill Bolt TAYLOR, Her Powerful Story about Our Brains

Posted in 2016, spirituality with tags , , , , , , , , , , , on December 11, 2016 by theboldcorsicanflame

Neuroanatomist Jill Bolte Taylor had an opportunity few brain scientists would wish for: One morning, she realized she was having a massive stroke. As it happened — as she felt her brain func…

Source: Jill Bolt TAYLOR, Her Powerful Story about Our Brains

Prayer Of The Mothers

Posted in 2016, spirituality with tags , , , , , , , , , on November 26, 2016 by theboldcorsicanflame

The song “Prayer of the Mothers”, was born as a result of an alliance made between singer-songwriter Yael Deckelbaum, and a group of courageous women, leading the movement of “Women Wage Peace”.
The movement arose on summer 2014 during the escalation of violence between Israel and the Palestinians, and the military operation “Tzuk Eitan”.

On October 4, 2016, Jewish and Arab women began with the joint “March of Hope” project.
Thousands of women marched from the north of Israel to Jerusalem in a call for peace. A call that reached it’s peak on October 19th, in a march of at least 4,000 women half of them Palestinian, and Half Israeli, in Qasr el Yahud (on the northern Dead Sea), in a joint prayer for peace.
The very same evening 15,000 women protested in front of the priministors house in Jerusalem.

The marches were joined by the Nobel Prize for Peace winner Leymah Gbowee, who lead to the end of the Second Liberian Civil War in 2003, by the joint force of women.

In the song, Yael Deckelbaum combined a recording of Leymah, sampled from a youtube video in which she had sent her blessings to the movement.

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Posted in 2016, animals, Galaxy, spirituality with tags on November 15, 2016 by theboldcorsicanflame

Life AFTER Death: Shock claim of evidence showing consciousness may continue as a SOUL

Posted in 2016, spirituality with tags , , , , , , , , on November 11, 2016 by theboldcorsicanflame

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The human conscious lives on after death, scientists have sensationally claimed….

The possibility of life after death is one of the greatest mysteries of humanity, but now experts are claiming that there is no death of consciousness – just death of the body.

According to some well-respected scientists, quantum mechanics allows consciousness to live on following the body’s eventual demise.

While scientists are still unsure about what exactly consciousness is, the University of Arizona’s Stuart Hameroff believes that it is merely information stored at a quantum level.

British physicist Sir Roger Penrose agrees and believes he and his team have found evidence that protein-based microtubules – a structural component of human cells – carry quantum information – information stored at a sub-atomic level.

VIDEOS and MORE on

http://www.express.co.uk/news/science/728897/LIFE-AFTER-DEATH-consciousness-continue-SOUL

 

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Life Lessons from an 80 Year Old Who Became the Hottest Guy on Catwalk & still Humble!

Posted in 2016, spirituality with tags , , , , , , , , on October 26, 2016 by theboldcorsicanflame

 

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When it’s time to shine, be the brightest! – Deshun Wang


王德順 人生八十 「該炫自己的時候,千萬不要手軟」

 

How an 80 year old worked for 60 years to become a global phenomenon on Fashion catwalk! Deshun Wang started his life again so many times!

Wang De Shun – A humble and down-to-earth man and China’s favourite grandfather, actor (and catwalk model).

Probably the fittest 80 year old on the planet – An engrossing documentary from LETV about his life and art, from before the Communist Party came to power until the present day.

王德顺,1936年出生于沈阳,人体艺

术大师、电影演员。1960年,王德顺开始做话剧演员。1985年,王德顺开始研究形体哑剧。1987年,王德顺将中国的哑剧带上世界哑剧舞台;1993年,王德顺创造“活雕塑”。2003年,王德顺参演何平执导《天地英雄》。2008年,王德顺参演张新建执导《闯关东》,2012年,王德顺参演张扬执导《飞越老人院》。2014年,王德顺参演董阿成执导电影《判若云泥》,并入围萨兰托电影节。2015年,王德顺参演陈正道执导《重返20岁》; 3月25日,王德顺在中国国际时装周在北京798艺术中心上演,因79岁的王德顺身材没有走样,精神矍铄,其光膀走秀的图片昨天爆红网络。 。

 

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